Reddit my daughter is childfree. Just because this person is your daughter does NOT mean you get to dictate massive life-altering decisions like the choice of carrying, birthing, and raising a child! As for being childfree, we had checked in each year about how we were feeling, making sure we were on the same page. I would crack within days of having a child in my home and no child deserves to have a parent like that. I've always made sure my daughter knows that she isn't locked into any declaration she makes about her future life one way or another. After so many years together, I thought it was pretty clear, but I've always been open to adoption. /r/Parenting is the place to discuss the ins and out as well as ups and downs of child-rearing. I can't even handle my husband saying or doing something repetitive for more than 20 seconds, there's no way I could tolerate a child. This is a sidebar, but as a childfree woman (37) with a mom who has been pushy and has made me feel guilty about not having kids, thank you for being so supportive of your daughter's choice. From the early stages of pregnancy to when your teenagers are finally ready to leave the nest (even if they don't want to) we're here to help you through this crazy thing called parenting. It's not that I wish I never had my kids (yes, they're stubborn, loud mouth, non listening little duckers, and I have to raise hell to get them to do the littlest thing, but I love them), I just wish I had some help every now and then. . She can make up her own mind and is also free to change it at her own discretion. Having you on her side will be immensely helpful. qvdk kvzoho vsooqm dqun edqqrm ssoen kjuuy xkijflmkr auog gzwfi